Personally I don't use the word 'kinky' as I figure if whatever
you're doing is with adults and with consent, it's just sex. The
dictionary definition of kinky is 'unusual' but who is the judge of what
However, the BDSM community describe their
lifestyle as 'kink' and this is an excellent blog post on perhaps
exploring any experience you may have had a little further.
Sex For The Rest have an excellent article - You're Probably Kinkier Than You Think
- for those who need a little enlightenment as to what kink is and what
you may like to explore. A lot of fun to be had whatever your preferred
level on the kink scale.